Update dependency declaration in all pom.xml (#10967)

Motivation:

We did have the architecture hardcoded in the dependency which is not correct as this will let the build fail on Applie Silicion (m1). Also we did miss some dependencies on other BSDs

Modifications:

- Fix classifier
- Add missing dependencies

Result:

Be able to build on Apple Silicon (m1)

all/pom.xml

@@ -186,7 +186,8 @@
         <dependency>
           <groupId>${project.groupId}</groupId>
           <artifactId>netty-resolver-dns-native-macos</artifactId>
-          <classifier>osx-x86_64</classifier>
+          <version>${project.version}</version>
+          <classifier>${jni.classifier}</classifier>
           <scope>compile</scope>
           <optional>true</optional>
         </dependency>
@@ -217,6 +218,12 @@
           <scope>compile</scope>
           <optional>true</optional>
         </dependency>
+        <dependency>
+          <groupId>${project.groupId}</groupId>
+          <artifactId>netty-resolver-dns-native-macos</artifactId>
+          <scope>compile</scope>
+          <optional>true</optional>
+        </dependency>
         <!-- Just include the classes for the other platform so these are at least present in the netty-all artifact -->
         <dependency>
           <groupId>${project.groupId}</groupId>
@@ -244,6 +251,12 @@
           <scope>compile</scope>
           <optional>true</optional>
         </dependency>
+        <dependency>
+          <groupId>${project.groupId}</groupId>
+          <artifactId>netty-resolver-dns-native-macos</artifactId>
+          <scope>compile</scope>
+          <optional>true</optional>
+        </dependency>
         <!-- Just include the classes for the other platform so these are at least present in the netty-all artifact -->
         <dependency>
           <groupId>${project.groupId}</groupId>