Motivation:
The wakeup logic in EpollEventLoop is overly complex
Modification:
* Simplify the race to wakeup the loop
* Dont let the event loop wake up itself (it's already awake!)
* Make event loop check if there are any more tasks after preparing to
sleep. There is small window where the non-eventloop writers can issue
eventfd writes here, but that is okay.
Result:
Cleaner wakeup logic.
Benchmarks:
```
BEFORE
Benchmark Mode Cnt Score Error Units
EpollSocketChannelBenchmark.executeMulti thrpt 20 408381.411 ± 2857.498 ops/s
EpollSocketChannelBenchmark.executeSingle thrpt 20 157022.360 ± 1240.573 ops/s
EpollSocketChannelBenchmark.pingPong thrpt 20 60571.704 ± 331.125 ops/s
Benchmark Mode Cnt Score Error Units
EpollSocketChannelBenchmark.executeMulti thrpt 20 440546.953 ± 1652.823 ops/s
EpollSocketChannelBenchmark.executeSingle thrpt 20 168114.751 ± 1176.609 ops/s
EpollSocketChannelBenchmark.pingPong thrpt 20 61231.878 ± 520.108 ops/s
```
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