dist: do not always restart jmx on shutdown

Restart=always leads to the following loop:

 1. scylla terminates abnormally
 2. scylla-jmx sees that, and terminates
 3. systemd sees that scylla-jmx terminated, and restarts it.
 4. scylla-jmx requires scylla, so systemd starts it.
 5. goto 1.

To prevent the loop, set Restart=on-abnormal; systemd will restart scylla-jmx
if some JVM bug got it killed, but not otherwise.

The downside to this patch is that if scylla-server goes down, so does
scylla-jmx, but if scylla-server is then restarted, scylla-jmx stays down.
To get scylla and scylla-jmx to start together, we need to create
scylla.service that requires both of them.

SCYLLA-VERSION-GEN

@@ -1,6 +1,6 @@
 #!/bin/sh
 
-VERSION=1.0
+VERSION=0.15
 
 if test -f version
 then

dist/redhat/systemd/scylla-jmx.service

@@ -10,7 +10,7 @@ User=scylla
 Group=scylla
 ExecStart=/usr/lib/scylla/jmx/scylla-jmx -l /usr/lib/scylla/jmx
 KillMode=process
-Restart=always
+Restart=on-abnormal
 
 [Install]
 WantedBy=multi-user.target